There are two ways to legally end a marriage - annulment and divorce. An annulment is a legal procedure which cancels a marriage between a man and a woman. Annulling a marriage is as though it is completely erased - legally, it declares that the marriage never technically existed and was never valid.
A divorce, or legal dissolution of a marriage, is the ending of a valid marriage between a man and a woman returning both parties to single status with the ability to remarry. While each individual state has its own laws regarding the grounds for an annulment or for a divorce, certain requirements apply nationwide.
An annulment case can be initiated by either the husband or the wife in the marriage. The party initiating the annulment must prove that he or she has the grounds to do so and if it can be proven, the marriage will be considered null and void by the court. The following is a list of common grounds for annulment and a short explanation of each point:
Bigamy - either party was already married to another person at the time of the marriage
Forced Consent - one of the spouses was forced or threatened into marriage and only entered into it under duress
Fraud - one of the spouses agreed to the marriage based on the lies or misrepresentation of the other
Marriage Prohibited By Law - marriage between parties that based on their familial relationship is considered incestuous
Mental Illness - either spouse was mentally ill or emotionally disturbed at the time of the marriage
Mental Incapacity - either spouse was under the influence of alcohol or drugs at the time of the marriage and was unable to make informed consent
Inability to Consummate Marriage - either spouse was physically incapable of having sexual relations or impotent during the marriage
Underage Marriage - either spouse was too young to enter into marriage without parental consent or court approval
Depending on your state of residence, a divorce can be much more complicated than an annulment. Like annulment cases, each state has its own set of laws regarding divorce. In most divorce cases, marital assets are divided and debts are settled. If the marriage has produced children, a divorce proceeding determines custody of the children, visitation rights and spousal and child support issues.
Each state can have either a "no-fault" divorce or a "fault" divorce. A no-fault divorce allows the dissolution of a legal marriage with neither spouse being named the "guilty party" or the cause for the marital break-up.
Many states now offer the "no-fault" divorce option, a dissolution of a legal marriage in which neither party accepts blame for the marital break-up. In the absence of a "guilty party," some states require a waiting period of a legal separation before a no-fault divorce can take place. For this reason, in addition to cases where one spouse wishes to assign blame, some parties seek to expedite the legal process by pursuing a traditional, "fault" divorce.
A "fault" divorce is only granted when one spouse can prove adequate grounds. Like an annulment, these grounds vary from state to state, however, there are some overarching commonalities. These guidelines often include addition to drugs, alcohol or gambling, incurable mental illness, and conviction of a crime. The major grounds for divorce that apply in every state are listed below:
Adultery - one or both spouses engages in extramarital relationships with others during the marriage
Desertion - one spouse abandons the other, physically and emotionally, for a lengthy period of time
Physical/Emotional Abuse - one spouse subjects the other to physical or violent attacks or emotional or psychological abuse such as abusive language, and threats of physical violence
Your state law and particular situation will determine whether or not your annulment or divorce will be simple or complex. Familiarizing yourself with the laws for your particular state is the best way to learn what your rights are in the case of a marital dissolution.
After almost 3 yrs marriage when my daughter was 3 mos. old I discovered my husband was a pedophile of huge proportions. He lied to me since before our marriage that his old computer related possession of child pornography was a "judicial misunderstanding" since he accidently downloaded a few pictures of 16 & 17 yr. old dancers and was given a few months probation in the early '90s. He is now in federal detention since Nov. 2008 awaiting trial for "possession of child pornography, over 100 counts." Aftr extensive investigation by TBI, Nashville PD and TN Dept. of Child Services I was cleared of any knowledge and have since moved home to TX with my daughter. The evidence is said to be over 1 million pictures, 5,000 videos, "erotic stories," etc. on an elaborate server system operated both from our home and his computer software office. I want an annulment on the grounds of gross fraud and misrepresentation of himself. Please advise of my options, if any, in TX. Thank you very much.
Sincerely,
Angela Austin Pate
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My husband and I have been married for 8 months and I am 6 months pregnant with his child. we both want to get an annulment.Would we be able to get one? we really don't want to get a divorce. We still want to be together but we don't want to be married.
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how do I get an annulment in Nevada, 30 min afteer the marage, wife said she wished we had not done it, marrage was never consumated
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Probably won't help you now, but why annul it...Just don't file the paperwork. You are not married on paper until someone turns in the marriage license signed by the pastor and witnesses.
I am from california and married in california . I would like to file annulment because my husband is still married in the Philippine. We have a child and we have been married for 15 years , he dosen't stay here long when he visits us. I have some assets under my name and was wondering is it subject for communal property?
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need downloadable forms to get an annulment in the state of california.
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i've beed married for 2 years and i want my marriage to be annulled how can i do that while i am still in the military
i have been separated with my husband for almost 11 months now
he has no work at all and we always argue on things.and there has been a third party involved in his side..i want to have an annulment..tell me pls wat to do wer to start ..thanks and god bless
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I was together with my husband for 10 years and 6 months after we got married he asked for divorce and I left the apartment. He contacted me days after to talk and he would tell me that we could work things out but he could never live with me again because I left our apartment he would always tell me give us time and we would work it but mean while he would tell me take your name of the lease because I dont want you to be part of it no more. It has been already more than a month since our separation but I see things are getting worse every day that passes our 1 yr anniversary for marriage is in March would I have to file for a divorce or a anullment? and what are the steps I should take?
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I have to get an annulment on my first marriage in order to get my children baptized> how do I get started?
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How long a time will it take for a marriage to be annuled? As a divorce would take atleast a year as per indian laws..
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My Wife and I separated in 1980. I have had a Partner for 30 years. We provided Financial Support, and I recently gave hermy CalVet home. I would like to see, if after 30 years, I have to get a Divorce, or can I do an Annulment?
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WHAT PAPERS DO I NEED TO DIVORCE TO MY SPOUSE MYSELF? AND WHERE CAN I OBTAIN THEM?
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my husband and i have 6 month of marriage,and i want to have information about annulment because we dont get along with each other we dont have intimacy and other personal problems that im embarrased to say.
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you are telling my complete story. how can i get an anolment without paying for it? i am a disabled man and only since we have been together i became disabled and now she doesnt wanty to be with me. so now im looking for away out of this problem of mariage. i have no money to pay for it. how can i get the forms that i need for free?
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why is divorce have not come to Philippines yet? Why is annulment cost too high despite it has smaller range of condition than of divorce?
The Philippines is a Catholic country. Due to this the church leaders have some level of influence on the government's decision whether to legalize divorce or not.
I live in Ohio and I have been married for 3 years and I wanted to know whether I need a divorce or an anulment because I don't want to be with my husband any more. We have a child together and he doesn't want to get a job to support us and he still lives with his parents while I am living with some relatives, because I'm not aloud to live at my in-laws and he won't try to help me find a place for us to live, and he's very immature! I was 17 when we got married and we had only been dating for 3 month.
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Hello, I have Been married 4 month, and the both of us are completely unhappy, and know we are not right for eachother... how do I get an annulment in Florida so we can both go our own way? We have no children
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Hello, I have been married for 10 years now. We got married in India and have 2 kids. Can I get a divorce here? I am currently not working, will I still get custody of kids?
hi !i've been married for almost 3years .. my problem is my husband and his son , everytime we argue we end up threating divorec ,his son always want to involve in are arguement ... i just wondering if file a divorce do i get something from him . his retired marine , before we got married his so nice a year later he change ..
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i live in las vegas been married 4 months out of two months was good heslow down on his drunking like two beers after work he didnt yell at me we were happy told me i could use his truck if i like he would give me money and promise me he would not lie to me about haveing more then to beers after work or call me hurt words yell at me or grab me by my arms and throw me out with my things and not spen all money at the casino well after the two good months he went back to the old him hes throws my stuff he throws beer on my hair please help me i have no money but if i have to i will sell my laptop thank you
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hello hi my husband and i have 2 monthes marriage i need information about announment
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hi! i have been separated for almost 3years, but my ex husband doesnt support my 2 children, i already charged him for concubinage but unfortunately court did not side on me, i really want to have an annulment, but if i file il be the one to shoulder all the expense,i cant afford to take all the expense. what should i do to legalize my separation with him? thanks
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