How to Get an Uncontested Divorce

How to Get an Uncontested Divorce

by Ronna L. DeLoe, Esq., July 2015

When it comes to getting a divorce, there are several terms and procedures that could be confusing if you’re not familiar with them. These include uncontested divorce, contested divorce and no-fault divorce. They each mean something completely different. Your situation will determine which procedure you’re more likely to use.

What is an Uncontested Divorce?

An uncontested divorce is a divorce where the couple has resolved all major issues, including:

  • Child custody
  • Visitation or parenting time
  • Child support
  • Spousal support
  • Division of property
  • How debt will be divided

An uncontested divorce offers benefits to couples that contested divorces do not. In some states, if you agree to all the terms of your divorce you may never have to step inside a courtroom. In other states you still have to go to court, but the uncontested divorce procedure in most states is much quicker than in a contested divorce.

If there are some issues that still need to be resolved, it might be advisable to negotiate with your spouse. Besides being resolved quickly, uncontested divorces involve a minimum amount of stress because you and your spouse are in agreement. Additionally, you can often get divorced without spending a lot on legal fees. If, however, there are complex issues which cannot be resolved, you will not be able to file an uncontested divorce.

How Uncontested Divorces Differ from Contested Divorces

In an uncontested divorce, the elements of agreement on all issues and relative speed through the court system are its distinguishing factors. In a contested divorce, the ability to make decisions about your case is taken out of your hands because a judge decides it. Your contested divorce will be litigated in court because you and your spouse are unable to agree. Sometimes having a lot of property and major disagreements over children’s issues can make a divorce become contested. The problem with contested divorces is they can take a long time and can cost a lot of money.

Contested divorces often mean increased stress and high legal costs because it requires going to court and possibly having a trial. Legal costs are high because of the amount of work involved. A contested divorce includes:

  • Filing a complaint or petition
  • Filing other documents, including net worth or financial statements with the court
  • Answering the petition or complaint if you are the party served
  • Serving and answering motions
  • Undergoing the tedious process of discovery to get information from your spouse
  • Going to trial with witnesses, and
  • Possibly dealing with an Attorney for the Children or a Guardian ad Litem who represents your children.

The Differences Between Uncontested Divorces and No-Fault Divorces

Uncontested divorces and no-fault divorces do not mean the same thing. It is possible to have either a no-fault uncontested divorce or a no-fault contested divorce in some states. A no-fault divorce simply means that the party filing the divorce does not accuse the other spouse for the failed marriage.

There is no longer a need to prove fault or grounds for divorce in any state. New York became the last state to become a no-fault state, but it is still possible to claim grounds for divorce such as adultery, abandonment or incarceration for three consecutive years in New York. Some states only allow no-fault divorces while others allow no-fault divorces or fault-based divorces. There is no advantage to using fault-based grounds for divorce—it drags out the divorce because there may be a trial on the grounds.

The language of a no-fault divorce is often that the marriage is irretrievably broken or that there are irreconcilable differences between you and your spouse. It’s a technical way of saying you can’t get along and communication between you is either nonexistent or strained.

How to Get an Uncontested Divorce

You can protect yourself in your uncontested divorce by hiring an uncontested divorce lawyer. A divorce lawyer is familiar with divorce papers and can ensure that the papers are filed and served properly.

Many states have uncontested divorce forms in county courthouses. The party who starts the divorce action fills out the forms, files them with the county clerk, pays a filing fee and has them served on the other party. Check with the county clerk or with your attorney so the papers are served correctly. Failure to serve divorce papers correctly could mean you have to start all over again and pay a second filing fee for starting another case.

If you fill out the forms incorrectly you may be able to amend them later on, but there is always the possibility that won’t be allowed. Consult with an attorney if you have any doubt about how to fill out, file and serve papers.

After you have your spouse served, your spouse must file a response. In some states that means signing the papers you have prepared. Check with your county clerk or an attorney so the procedure is followed correctly. After the response is done, you may have to observe a mandatory waiting period in a number of states. In some states your attorney prepares a Stipulation of Settlement or Settlement Agreement which will be included in your divorce.

You may want to consider doing your uncontested divorce online. Forms are available with instructions for your particular state. The forms will be filled out from the information you provide, so make sure your information is accurate. After you receive your forms, check with your attorney or county clerk about how to file and serve the papers. Service of papers is what starts the uncontested divorce process. In some states, an uncontested divorce is granted in a matter of weeks or a few months.

If you and your spouse agree on the major issues, an uncontested divorce may be right for you. Otherwise, you can talk to an attorney to get advice or help filing for divorce with the LegalZoom personal legal plan