Don't Have a Will? 10 Common but Misguided Excuses

3. Not ready to make important life decisions

If you think your will has to be the “be all end all” document and you're just not ready to make such huge and overwhelming decisions, think again. A will is something you create for right now—not for some nebulous time in the future—with what you currently have, what your thoughts are for giving them away, and who you know now that you would like to give them to. Next year, all that can change. All you have to do at that point is revise your will. The best part is, once you've made your first will, the next one becomes much easier. Then you get to a point, as you go along through life, where you get clear ideas of what you should change, enabling you to easily keep your will consistent with how you feel today.

4. Unaware of the consequences of not having a will

As they say, “Ignorance is bliss.” Most often, those that don't do their wills simply aren't aware of what they're missing. Without a will, if your estate totals a certain amount (which you or may not even realize you have until you add up the total value), the probate court takes over and doles out your property based on your family relationships. If you are married, your spouse would receive some or all of your property, then your children; and if there are no children, then to your parents; and if there are no parents, then to your parent's children (i.e., your brothers and sisters) or their children; etc., etc. You get the idea. And the process to figure all this out costs money, which your estate pays for. So, if that is what you intend, then great. But most people don't, so that's why it's good idea (a no-brainer, in fact), to plan ahead.

5. Avoiding dealing with family issues

Not wanting to deal with family issues is a big reason a lot of people don't do their wills. Having to confront issues of the past can be extremely uncomfortable and even a flash point for a current relationship. While issues with a blended family, past relationships, a special needs child, addicted family member, or more can seem unresolvable, there are solutions. One way is to work with an attorney, who, in these types of situations, can help, as they generally have experience tailoring wills to deal with more complex or delicate family dynamics.

6. Disagreement between spouses or partners about having a will

Sometimes partners—whether married or not—can disagree on the importance of a will. That's normal. One may be a #3 and one may be a #4 (from above)—a perfect combination for not getting a will done. If the #4 partner becomes more informed and decides to get a will, even if #3 still doesn't, #4 can still go it alone. Spouses or partners don't have to agree on their wills or do it together. Just getting one will done helps. For unmarried parters, a will is just as important—if not more important—as the law doesn't provide the same protections for unmarried couples as for married couples. Who knows, once the dissenting spouse sees how easy it is to make a will, they just might be inspired to make theirs.

7. Belief that it takes too much effort

Well, everything takes at least some effort—especiallIy anything worthwhile—but how much effort is a matter of degree. These days, you can get a will done online in as little at 15 minutes for less than $100. If that isn't convincing enough to do your will done today, I don't know what else is.

8. Unsure where to start

Not knowing how to start a will can trip some people up, but using it as an excuse to not do one is not that convincing. You can start by doing some research online; you can start by organizing your thoughts on paper; you can start by making a will on a website like LegalZoom that guides you step-by-step through the process. There are any number of ways to start—it all boils down to taking that first step.